Many of you guys out there are aware of the benefit of surprising your lady with flowers, chocolate, or maybe some jewelry, but I wonder if you have ever considered lingerie? Some of you out there think “Why lingerie, we’re just gonna’ take it off in 5 minutes.” That is exactly my point, does jewelry and flowers work that fast? Nothing makes your woman feel sexy, beautiful and wanted more than a gift of lingerie.
It doesn’t matter what size or shape she is, you giving her lingerie as a gift, will tell her how sexy you think she is. Lingerie is an intimate gift for two. When you give a woman lingerie it shouts “I want you!”. When she puts it on for you it says “I feel beautiful, I feel sexy, and I want to please you”.
We have a bulletin board in our shop that reads “Lingerie never killed anybody, well, maybe a heart attack, but, what a way to go. Then again, lingerie has been known to bring the dead back to life.©”. That caption gets a few smiles. Then again, those that come into our shop are already aware of the benefits.
You may be saying, “Our relationship is just fine, she already knows I love her and I think she is sexy”. Does she? Ask yourself, does she really know that I get turned on by her? When was the last time you told her? The longer you are together the more assurance she needs. A great article on how to make the perfect romantic evening is titled “Lingerie Bowl at Home.” You may want to read it.
We get so caught up in our day to day lives that we often forget to tell each other, just how much we mean to one another. It’s not anyones fault, it just happens. We have a tendency to take things for granted. Two of the biggest complaints I hear from women is “We never talk anymore.” and, “We don’t make love anymore, we just have sex.”. Hey, sex is great, I’m all for sex. When was the last time you made love? Communication, and honesty are the two biggest successful relationship factors. Maintaining a deep passionate love for one another is next in line.
Sure, flowers, jewelry, and chocolate say I love you. But lingerie says, I love you, I want you, I find you sexy, and, I have a deep burning passion for you. Thats why lingerie. The intimate gift for two. If you want to know how to pick out lingerie, read my article titled “Picking the Right Lingerie for your Gal.”